[SIZE=3]When we are in a relationship we tend to put on a number of faces when we talk about our ladies girlfriend, wife or otherwise.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=3]We quite often don’t talk about the bad..hard or uncomfortable bits.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=3]We are all human and as such are in no way perfect. Hardly any revelations here.555[/SIZE]
[SIZE=3]What I thought might be relevant would be to talk about conflict and how we deal with it.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=3]Now every TG or just any woman is different, if you can find two the same I would doubt your word.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=3]The thing is I have found all the rules for fighting just don’t apply and that quite often I am at a loss as to what to do.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=3]Have spoken with a few BM’s as to how they deal with these inevitable situations and am adapting.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=3]What I have found is I tend to just go boom and spew forth what I feel in a rush loudly and strongly…To strong for a TG who has never had to deal with this.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=3]Conversely silent or verbal spewing and quick flashes to anger are the norm for some TG’s.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=3]I always react with equality of volume as I may have in the past in a farang relationship.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=3]It just does not work….but changing behavior a life time learned is not so easy.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=3]Was told by a mentor many years ago that no person can effect your emotions only you yourself can….I find myself clinging to this at times of need as my emotional ship descends the depths.555[/SIZE]
[SIZE=3]I am developing strategies that mostly work for me now.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=3]What I thought might be good is to know how others deal with this part of life.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=3]Have you found it hard?[/SIZE]
[SIZE=3]A deal breaker?[/SIZE]
[SIZE=3]Been able to shrug it off and if so how?[/SIZE]