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    Bar Girl can it work?

    Subject that is on many minds out there.

    Thoughts please. We all have opinions.

    There must be successful stories amongst the not so.

    Can it really happen?
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    Without a doubt..... there are many successes out there.
    You will find that most of these girls have dreams of the Knight in shining armour sweeping her off her feet and living happily ever after.
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    Are you asking if you can make a silk purse out of a sow's ear?
    Yes. Apparently....?

    http://libraries.mit.edu/archives/exhibits/purse/

    And where the hell was Biggles.....?....when you needed him last Saturday....?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Changone View Post

    Are you asking if you can make a silk purse out of a sow's ear?
    Yes. Apparently....?

    http://libraries.mit.edu/archives/exhibits/purse/


    No simple I am not asking that.
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    I am like you awaiting responses, at this hour and a day with my aussie daughters i feel like asking, Falang girl can it work?
    Last edited by Spot; 30th April 2012 at 09:34.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jontymate View Post
    Subject that is on many minds out there.

    Thoughts please. We all have opinions.

    There must be successful stories amongst the not so.

    Can it really happen?
    Happens all the time. I suspect the problems of it not working are as much to do with the type of guy they attract as much as the girls themselves. But I have seen/read about hundreds of successful stories. And as many unsuccessful ones... 555
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    Half the TG/Farang married couples we know first met in the bar where she worked. It really happens all the time IMHO.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Distantpeak View Post
    Happens all the time. I suspect the problems of it not working are as much to do with the type of guy they attract as much as the girls themselves. But I have seen/read about hundreds of successful stories. And as many unsuccessful ones... 555
    Agree with that.
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    It can work, but chances are higher if a nice guy gets the girl out of the bar, before the bar gets into the girl.
    Last edited by Mick; 30th April 2012 at 12:42.

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    Where are you Condo...? Hop off the grader for a few minutes and tell us how its all going...555
    And where the hell was Biggles.....?....when you needed him last Saturday....?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Minder View Post
    Half the TG/Farang married couples we know first met in the bar where she worked. It really happens all the time IMHO.
    50% wow. But does not really surprise me. Hard to ever really know as it is not advertised. But I bet Mrs. M can pick it within 5 minutes of talking to them. My wife can.

    How do you know I ask her. Do you ask them?..... oh no never ask for her life before.....By the way they talk and the stories they tell.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jontymate View Post
    50% wow. But does not really surprise me. Hard to ever really know as it is not advertised. But I bet Mrs. M can pick it within 5 minutes of talking to them. My wife can.

    How do you know I ask her. Do you ask them?..... oh no never ask for her life before.....By the way they talk and the stories they tell.
    So just curious and would like input from Mrs M. and your Missus Jonty... Does the Hi So come to Aus?

    I was talking with S about an introduction - same same "You have Flend for me" S says not help, this Lady speak English, very rich, have many computer not get involved... OK I have been told.....

    And also teasing out the "never ask her life before"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spot View Post
    So just curious and would like input from Mrs M. and your Missus Jonty... Does the Hi So come to Aus?

    I was talking with S about an introduction - same same "You have Flend for me" S says not help, this Lady speak English, very rich, have many computer not get involved... OK I have been told.....

    And also teasing out the "never ask her life before"

    Cheerio
    There are many Hi-So students here getting specialist education.... not cheap to get an education here in Oz, just to learn English costs nearly a years wage!
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    Many factor i think, but one thing i see is relationship is not maybe starting from the right place...
    Questions that need to be asked.
    How does she see you?
    Are you a customer or boyfriend and can you become one from the other?
    Her age and how long she has been in the bar.
    How many sponsors does she have and are you the best offer....If you are not then you are short time boyfriend/customer.

    Timing is everything and then your actions from there.
    Lowering the chances of it working might be leaving her in LOS for to long/ her not wanting to come to Farangland yet for many reasons refer how many sponsors.5555

    Being blind to the problems that can occur beleiving everything you are told, NOT using your big head to think....

    Dont know i think it can work but it is more what you do after you commit maybe...But what do i know i am simple like C1....
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    I volunteer at the Queensland Uni Vet Hospital mainly to keep some qualifications but I teach an informal tutorial about being a small business person. This is the only place I have meet Hi So Thais out of Thailand.

    I am yet to meet a Hi So married to a farang. To be honest. I think you have paid all this money for an education Miss / Master Hi So. You will never earn enough in Thailand to cover what your parents paid for.

    Fact of life. Mate
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    Quote Originally Posted by wabbits View Post
    Many factor i think, but one thing i see is relationship is not maybe starting from the right place...
    Questions that need to be asked.
    How does she see you?
    Are you a customer or boyfriend and can you become one from the other?
    Her age and how long she has been in the bar.
    How many sponsors does she have and are you the best offer....If you are not then you are short time boyfriend/customer.

    Timing is everything and then your actions from there.
    Lowering the chances of it working might be leaving her in LOS for to long/ her not wanting to come to Farangland yet for many reasons refer how many sponsors.5555

    Being blind to the problems that can occur beleiving everything you are told, NOT using your big head to think....

    Dont know i think it can work but it is more what you do after you commit maybe...But what do i know i am simple like C1....
    I think the bolded goes a long way. Luck and then hard work of a learning curve.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jontymate View Post
    50% wow. But does not really surprise me. Hard to ever really know as it is not advertised. But I bet Mrs. M can pick it within 5 minutes of talking to them. My wife can.

    How do you know I ask her. Do you ask them?..... oh no never ask for her life before.....By the way they talk and the stories they tell.
    When I had Jeab here, I had a Thai lady tutor her for 2 hrs 4 days a week for 2 months. So they got to know each other and spoke in Thai and English, I always remained upstairs during lesson time.

    Later after she went back, and then we had fights because she used the money I gave for other things, I wrote out what i wanted to say to her, and went to teachers house and asked her to, using my phone, translate to Jeab what I had written, so there was no missunderstanding due to language barrier.

    She read the letter, it had reference to Jeab going back to working bar in Patts, she looked up at me with a puzzled face and said "She is bar girl??? No".

    So I guess sometimes they can foo; their own, so how easy to fool us????
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    I think some bar girls stand out as obvious... whereas others will be near impossible to tell. A girl who has been a BG for 6 weeks... is she any different to when she left home? Some may get more confident over the years, some may become hardened cynical money grabbing maverickesses... and some may be just the same lovely girl they always were. They are all different. Just like in any walk of life.. you can't always judge a book by it's cover... or even the first few chapters...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Distantpeak View Post
    I think some bar girls stand out as obvious... whereas others will be near impossible to tell. A girl who has been a BG for 6 weeks... is she any different to when she left home? Some may get more confident over the years, some may become hardened cynical money grabbing maverickesses... and some may be just the same lovely girl they always were. They are all different. Just like in any walk of life.. you can't always judge a book by it's cover... or even the first few chapters...
    You meet a girl doing her job which is to charm you......Can you create a relationship......One of the first questions that need to be answered might be can you establish what is fact and what is fantasy. If She has been in the bar for awhile you also have to get past the training the other BGs give.

    Sure there are many looking to find a husband but for what reason this is easy to see for those with experience in LOS to see the game or see a rough diamond.

    Maybe it's about expectations yours and hers.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Distantpeak View Post
    I think some bar girls stand out as obvious... whereas others will be near impossible to tell. A girl who has been a BG for 6 weeks... is she any different to when she left home? Some may get more confident over the years, some may become hardened cynical money grabbing maverickesses... and some may be just the same lovely girl they always were. They are all different. Just like in any walk of life.. you can't always judge a book by it's cover... or even the first few chapters...
    You meet a girl doing her job which is to charm you......Can you create a relationship......One of the first questions that need to be answered might be can you establish what is fact and what is fantasy. If She has been in the bar for awhile you also have to get past the training the other BGs give.

    Sure there are many looking to find a husband but for what reason this is easy to see for those with experience in LOS to see the game or see a rough diamond.

    Maybe it's about expectations yours and hers.
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