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    Quote Originally Posted by Stillearly View Post
    why do you care if she has mushrooms .... ah morals

    but cant the same be said for a guy that has high mileage .. ?

    that said , I do agree with you and if I ever was to look for a long term partner them she would be low mileage , even though considering my history it would be somewhat hypocritical
    I think a BG past is a valid concern

    But you would care about how many people some random girl you met slept with?

    That's kids shit, IMO

    After the age of say 28-30yrs old that never even crossed my mind when dating girls.

    I mean you don't want a girl acting like a whore but I wouldn't even think about what her past was

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarcTwoSix View Post
    You lost 8k to a "regular girl"
    You are "in love" with the new one after a couple months

    And you are talking about which one is riskier?

    Some guys have no self-awareness whatsoever
    ALL women are a risk! Some are just riskier than others. 555

    The really gorgeous hot babes know they have lots of men after them. But that wears off quickly. Who wants to be with a narcissistic woman who is always flirting with other men when you are with them? Eventually, even the hot babes start to wise up and they know it's time to settle down. Their fresh beauty starts to fade and there is always some new beauty queen coming along to take their place.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MarcTwoSix View Post
    Any girl from any background that marries an older dude it's about money

    You honestly think your wife would have considered you if you didn't have a seemingly secure financial situation?
    That’s rubbish, I have dated a few young western chicks in Aust in there 20's non new nothing about me but happy to date and even paid half. I got friends in Perth with age gap differences and the guy has no money. Some girls just like older guys mainly because we treat them well or they have daddy issues.

    Yes I believe my wife would have still dated me, just like my last few wife’s did.

    My first few wife’s I had nothing and was a tradie.

    My current wife didn’t know my financial situation, I lived in a room when we first met I rented from a friend at the time and drove a oldish car worth about 5k. I never took her to any fancy places and gave her no impression that I had money. I was looking for a girl that wasn’t after the money and was very aware of not giving off that impression. She still has no idea what I have.

    She didn’t need a guy to support her. Her family at a guess has more than me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ian Forbes View Post
    ALL women are a risk! Some are just riskier than others. 555

    The really gorgeous hot babes know they have lots of men after them. But that wears off quickly. Who wants to be with a narcissistic woman who is always flirting with other men when you are with them? Eventually, even the hot babes start to wise up and they know it's time to settle down. Their fresh beauty starts to fade and there is always some new beauty queen coming along to take their place.
    But it's non-sensical for a guy who got taken for 8k from a girl he probably hardly knew to be talking about BG's being "more risky"

    I mean have some self awareness

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    Quote Originally Posted by OZZYGUY View Post
    That’s rubbish, I have dated a few young western chicks in Aust in there 20's non new nothing about me but happy to date and even paid half. I got friends in Perth with age gap differences and the guy has no money. Some girls just like older guys mainly because we treat them well or they have daddy issues.

    Yes I believe my wife would have still dated me, just like my last few wife’s did.

    My first few wife’s I had nothing and was a tradie.

    My current wife didn’t know my financial situation, I lived in a room when we first met I rented from a friend at the time and drove a oldish car worth about 5k. I never took her to any fancy places and gave her no impression that I had money. I was looking for a girl that wasn’t after the money and was very aware of not giving off that impression. She still has no idea what I have.

    She didn’t need a guy to support her. Her family at a guess has more than me.
    Yeah but she just happened to end up with a guy with a few houses that sold his business and retired early
    Weird how that worked out.

    Man you guys try and delude yourselves

    For what?
    To massage your ego?

    That is not to say your wife doesn't love you, of course she does
    And by all accounts she is fantastic girl

    But there is not one BM on here married to a younger girl that money wasn't a factor

    It's laughable when you guys try and act like it isn't


    I especially love the line "she still has no idea what I have"

    I would imagine the early retirement, the 2nd house on the water gives her a bit of a clue 5555
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    Quote Originally Posted by MarcTwoSix View Post
    You lost 8k to a "regular girl"

    Yes, you have a good memory :-) and yes, the former "regular girlfriend" came from a very poor family so i gather the money was more important for her than anything else. What i have learnt from her, and from the one before, feel that they didnt have good management skills when it comes to money. BTW, and not mentioned before, after viewing a court summons that was issued to Kai when we were together for a credit card that was maxed out with no return payments made for a long time, i agreed and fulfilled my promise to her to cover the debt.....



    Quote Originally Posted by MarcTwoSix View Post
    You are "in love" with the new one after a couple months
    Yes, you sound surprised..... Two months is a longtime when you spend every weekend together and see other most week nights ...... Ahhhhh, the luxury of having a Thai girl living not more than 20 minutes away from my home


    Quote Originally Posted by MarcTwoSix View Post

    Some guys have no self-awareness whatsoever
    55555555

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarcTwoSix View Post

    Girls you don't know that come on to you in Thailand are after the same exact thing as any BG
    Understood but that said, i am sure the regular girl is not hitting the booze and receiving d**k most nights of the week

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarcTwoSix View Post
    Yeah but she just happened to end up with a guy with a few houses that sold his business and retired early
    Weird how that worked out.

    Man you guys try and delude yourselves

    For what?
    To massage your ego?

    But there is not one BM on here married to a younger girl that money wasn't a factor

    It's laughable when you guys try and act like it isn't
    As some guys say "my girl is different" 555

    I don’t have an ego it is what it is.

    You know of some of her family back ground, it is different to most.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cobba View Post
    Understood but that said, i am sure the regular girl is not hitting the booze and receiving d**k most nights of the week
    So it's more about your fragile ego than any risk a TG or BG would pose then?
    Because some strange girls motivation would only be for money or her perception that you have money so there is no different risk.

    It sounds like you just wanted to make a statement more them anything with this thread

    You've stated that you have no interest in BG, never been around them but are making assumptions on something you've never experienced

    Yet you probably got suckered more than most guys who have been involved with a BG

    And yes falling "in love " after two months after expressing your desire to find a Thai girl so bad sounds like you are desperate for any sort of relationship which will likely lead you to getting suckered again
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    Quote Originally Posted by OZZYGUY View Post
    As some guys say "my girl is different" 555

    I don’t have an ego it is what it is.

    You know of some of her family back ground, it is different to most.
    I wasn't have a go at you or Janice

    My point was there is always financial considerations

    Let's just say she was probably more attracted to your seemingly secured financial background than your flowing head of hair 5555

    Oh and I am sure she figured out quickly you are tight as shit so she would have bailed if it was just about money 5555

    I honestly meant no offense at all

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarcTwoSix View Post
    I wasn't have a go at you or Janice

    My point was there is always financial considerations

    Let's just say she was probably more attracted to your seemingly secured financial background than your flowing head of hair 5555

    Oh and I am sure she figured out quickly you are tight as shit so she would have bailed if it was just about money 5555

    I honestly meant no offense at all
    I didnt take offense. just dont agree with "My point was there is always financial considerations "

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarcTwoSix View Post
    Yeah but she just happened to end up with a guy with a few houses that sold his business and retired early
    Weird how that worked out.

    Man you guys try and delude yourselves

    For what?
    To massage your ego?

    That is not to say your wife doesn't love you, of course she does
    And by all accounts she is fantastic girl

    But there is not one BM on here married to a younger girl that money wasn't a factor

    It's laughable when you guys try and act like it isn't


    I especially love the line "she still has no idea what I have"

    I would imagine the early retirement, the 2nd house on the water gives her a bit of a clue 5555
    555555555...... I love it ........ I am 48 and she is 42 ..... I want to save this quote and hopefully return to it sometime in the near future proving your statement in bold "WRONG" 555555

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    Quote Originally Posted by OZZYGUY View Post
    I didnt take offense. just dont agree with "My point was there is always financial considerations "

    Before I get to confident we are still waiting our partner visa approval.........55 Just saying.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cobba View Post
    Understood but that said, i am sure the regular girl is not hitting the booze and receiving d**k most nights of the week
    I should imagine that quite a few non BG's do that too 555
    my you are judgmental.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OZZYGUY View Post
    I didnt take offense. just dont agree with "My point was there is always financial considerations "
    That's fair enough and I respect you disagree
    I also think the debate would be much better served having beers and talking about it


    By the way most Thai girls I know here in Vancouver, wether they be former BG or "regular " Thai girls are mostly with regular Joe's

    Sure their life was improved by marrying a Canadian, so there was that attraction to the relationship, but most aren't living in the lap of luxury

    I know very few TG's married to really well off guys

    Honestly my wife probably has one of the better situations(when she actually lived here!) and I wouldn't say we are anything more than a regular Joe couple

    Her best friend here is with a very well off guy but I help her friend with her investments and just the parts I've seen she has well over 500k on her own
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    Quote Originally Posted by OZZYGUY View Post

    My first few wife’s I had nothing and was a tradie
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    C'mon OZZYGUY......... You are making out as if a "tradie" is of a lower class proffesion ........ BTW, i work construction 5555555

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    The other thing is we know a few girls that are former bar girls, been living in Aust a long time like 10 plus years and now seperated from the Aust guy that brought them to Aust. Not because of a visa and run job just seperated like a lot of people do.


    You would never pic them as a BG and all had regualar jobs in Aust. "new life" I guess.


    If they find a new guy will they tell him that she once was a BG?

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    Quote Originally Posted by OZZYGUY View Post


    If they find a new guy will they tell him that she once was a BG?
    Well right there is food for thought

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    Quote Originally Posted by OZZYGUY View Post
    The other thing is we know a few girls that are former bar girls, been living in Aust a long time like 10 plus years and now seperated from the Aust guy that brought them to Aust. Not because of a visa and run job just seperated like a lot of people do.


    You would never pic them as a BG and all had regualar jobs in Aust. "new life" I guess.


    If they find a new guy will they tell him that she once was a BG?
    Why would she?

    And do you think she has to?

    Seemingly we'd be talking about people well into their 30's and I would imagine probably their 40's and 50's

    They met the girl after all that was done so I don't see the need to


    I guess the only reason I'd say she should is if it would ever come into play for some reason


    Say if I met a girl in Vancouver that was 35yrs old.
    She used to be into the club and party scene when she was younger so did a lot of drugs and had a lot of one night stands
    I'd never expect her to tell me
    I wouldn't care but it's her past
    Unless it would ever have some material effect on our current relationship I wouldn't care about her past at all

    Say a crazy ex-bf that still lingers around or she had a child she no longer sees much.
    Last edited by MarcTwoSix; 1st August 2018 at 14:27.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cobba View Post
    555555555...... I love it ........ I am 48 and she is 42 ..... I want to save this quote and hopefully return to it sometime in the near future proving your statement in bold "WRONG" 555555
    My wife is a former BG who, after 15 years, will still ask me before she uses her credit card for 30 dollars
    You got taken for 8k by some "regular girl " you probably hardly knew because you "fell in love " so fast

    I'm pretty comfortable in my risk analysis vs yours 5555
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