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    Sexy girl syndrome or just superficial

    Sexy girl syndrome or just superficial ?????

    Do trips to asia and playing in the P4P areana make you to fussy. What happens when its time to find a nice lass to settle down with? Do we become to fussy?

    I think playing with sexy young ladys in the P4P areana has made me far to fussy as far as looks go.

    Do you have this problem? Or am i just a superficial pric?

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    Paying for a service or experience is just a step into a fantasy world. Like taking a drug to get a high. When the recreational use becomes a need or your new reality as a base line you are in trouble IMO. That said, I have Thai wife and the journey is far from that fantasy. It's hard work as all relationships are for me. Though I think I'm batting above MY average. Happiness does not come from another person alone.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jontymate View Post
    Paying for a service or experience is just a step into a fantasy world. Like taking a drug to get a high. When the recreational use becomes a need or your new reality as a base line you are in trouble IMO. That said, I have Thai wife and the journey is far from that fantasy. It's hard work as all relationships are for me. Though I think I'm batting above MY average. Happiness does not come from another person alone.
    The Phuket ladies seem to be a bit hard-nosed these days, if that's what you're after, then good for you

    I'm looking for a nice easy GF experience with my Lat.
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    as long as guys understand that these girls are not you real gf's...then there should be no problem..remember you are paying them to be your gf's
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    At the end of the day, relationships are just human addictions in various degrees. Give up a BG and marry someone, and you've just given up weed in favour of heroin. It's a much deeper high and it also has greater drawbacks. Which is exactly what Wabbits just described. As nice as they can be, relationships are still there to feed a need. They all cost something, and they all have their strengths and flavours.

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    I date a lady close to my age in the states. I do not compare/confuse the two. I have never really had a problem getting ladies that were attractive relative to age. I guess at 36 i would not really want a girl that was "like" the patong rentals anyway. I know they look nice and all.....but after the fun what do you talk about with a 20 year old? I guess as stated above.......I think i understand what i am paying for and what reality is.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TMTBOUND View Post
    I date a lady close to my age in the states. I do not compare/confuse the two. I have never really had a problem getting ladies that were attractive relative to age. I guess at 36 i would not really want a girl that was "like" the patong rentals anyway. I know they look nice and all.....but after the fun what do you talk about with a 20 year old? I guess as stated above.......I think i understand what i am paying for and what reality is.
    think you have hit the nail on the head TMT....dont compare or confuse the two....there is a big differance between love and sex...

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    It is all about your psyche, really
    Some allow their ego to be massaged or want their ego massaged
    Some are truly hurt emotionally over a breakup or just not having much luck with ladies in general........so easily blur the lines

    You really need to separate the two and it shouldn't be that hard.
    I do think p4p can help guys with their confidence and confidence does translate to being more attractive to people so it can help when you are back home
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    what's not to get here...when you wake up in the morning and pay the lady for spending the night with you then you know full well what the deal is...P4P

    when you ask yourself would this women be with me if I wasn't paying her each month...and the honest answer is NO...then even if she is living under the same roof and maybe even being very nice to you...you know deep down what is going on...you are a "boss" to her

    love is fantasy...P4P is too, albeit a different kind of fantasy..however they shouldn't be at all difficult to tell apart if you know your own true self
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    Quote Originally Posted by MarcTwoSix View Post
    Some are truly hurt emotionally over a breakup or just not having much luck with ladies in general........so easily blur the lines

    You really need to separate the two and it shouldn't be that hard.


    I have to agree with you. I have found that some guys that get too deep in P4P fantasy are those that struggle with interpersonal relationships in their home countries. That CAN be for various reasons as you noted....terrible baggage and confidence deterioration. Oh well...... we all pay in one way or the other. luckily we all get to choose how and when we pay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by meese View Post
    here is a big differance between love and sex...
    fk...now you tell me 55
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    Quote Originally Posted by meese View Post
    there is a big differance between love and sex...
    "The difference between sex and love is that sex relieves tension and love causes it."

    Woody Allen
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    marriage material?....

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    Quote Originally Posted by OZZYGUY View Post
    Sexy girl syndrome or just superficial ?????

    Do trips to asia and playing in the P4P areana make you to fussy. What happens when its time to find a nice lass to settle down with? Do we become to fussy?

    I think playing with sexy young ladys in the P4P areana has made me far to fussy as far as looks go.

    Do you have this problem? Or am i just a superficial pric?
    Most of us aspire to have nice things , when you are renting you can afford the latest model car , a more sought after area to live or the best looking girl available , because the expenses are only short term , when it comes to settling down or buying a car / property / relationship then , maybe you need to compromise and be more practical , look for something that won't be too high maintence
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    Quote Originally Posted by OZZYGUY View Post
    Sexy girl syndrome or just superficial ?????

    Do trips to asia and playing in the P4P areana make you to fussy. What happens when its time to find a nice lass to settle down with? Do we become to fussy?

    I think playing with sexy young ladys in the P4P areana has made me far to fussy as far as looks go.

    Do you have this problem? Or am i just a superficial pric?

    This is a real and natural reaction in the same way that a kid that has just come back from Disneyland expects everything to be Mickey Mouse when he gets home to reality.

    You are not necessarily a superficial pric unless you expect everyone else to conform to your state of temporary love insanity.

    If you suddenly find yourself lusting after 20 something's at your local shops it's time for a reality check.

    Just remember, even though you have died and gone to heaven only to be reborn into the same old world, you still don't look any different to them...555

    PS...but if you find you are no longer dating swamp donkeys since returning from Thailand, this is a good thing....(!))))




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    Quote Originally Posted by OZZYGUY View Post
    Sexy girl syndrome or just superficial ?????

    Do trips to asia and playing in the P4P areana make you to fussy. What happens when its time to find a nice lass to settle down with? Do we become to fussy?

    I think playing with sexy young ladys in the P4P areana has made me far to fussy as far as looks go.

    Do you have this problem? Or am i just a superficial pric?
    Just superficial for me so far...

    Trips to Thailand haven't changed my opinion of Farang women one iota. Remove the physical side and no Thai woman has come close to the relationships I have had with farang women. I need that mental stimulation big time. Just hasn't happened to the same degree with a TG yet.. hence why it is purely superficial physical attraction during my stopovers on the way to.. and back from NZ for me...

    Now a Thai girl raised in the West may be capable of wooing me... but I haven't met many of them yet where I live.. 555
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    Quote Originally Posted by Distantpeak View Post
    Just superficial for me so far...

    Trips to Thailand haven't changed my opinion of Farang women one iota. Remove the physical side and no Thai woman has come close to the relationships I have had with farang women. I need that mental stimulation big time. Just hasn't happened to the same degree with a TG yet.. hence why it is purely superficial physical attraction during my stopovers on the way to.. and back from NZ for me...

    Now a Thai girl raised in the West may be capable of wooing me... but I haven't met many of them yet where I live.. 555
    DP understand about if the TG was raised in western world but then she also woukd have lost her culture. I thought of that but I do like asian culture.

    Whats brought this all about is this.
    I date alot of girls back hone. All Asian all 30 to 40 years old. No money no visa issues most attractive. I dont have issues finding girls at home.

    So about 4 months ago I started dating this 36 year old Fillipino lady. Atractive, great English, loves cooking, very well educated, gets on great with my kids and parents. Sex is better than any other lady before. ( been a few555) her step dad of 28 years is from the USA and her pearents have a guest house in the beach front in Cebu they support her finacialy so no sending money home. This girl is a keeper.
    The issue I have is she is a size 10. I like skinny sexy girls. She is still smaller than the falang girls sure and I know a 10 is not that big.

    So im just thinking im a superficial pric.
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    So own up, are there any bm's here who have a solid relationship or marrage with an ex BG?
    Or are we all just talking stereotypes here?
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    Quote Originally Posted by PeteGill View Post
    So own up, are there any bm's here who have a solid relationship or marrage with an ex BG?
    Or are we all just talking stereotypes here?
    I had a short relationship with one, took her back to Oz but after awhile too much going on in her head so took her back.

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