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    The Private Detective Is Watching You In Thailand

    Amnuaiporn Maneewan has 15 years as a private detective in Thailand.

    She says the only man you can trust is a dead one. If he is still alive, still breathing then you can't trust them.
    Her work has made her a minor celebrity in Thailand as the master of catching men
    in compromising situations with a ''mia noi'' minor wife on the side of marriage.

    Is being married or living with a long term girlfriend in Thailand harder (as in keeping away from temptations door) as opposed to living with her outside of Thailand.

    Are us blokes really as bad as she says or does the skirt chasing bug never leave us?
    This statement was released this week and very interesting.
    Thought I would put this one to the board of experts. Experts in knowledge of course.

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    Are us blokes really as bad as she says or does the skirt chasing bug never leave us?
    Some are, some aren't.... bad to the left... good to the right...

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    That graph is quite phallic might hurt our cause.....55555
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    Quote Originally Posted by wabbits View Post
    That graph is quite phallic might hurt our cause.....55555
    Depends what your cause is... 555
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    Quote Originally Posted by Distantpeak View Post
    Depends what your cause is... 555
    Cause and effect???
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    Quote Originally Posted by wabbits View Post
    Cause and effect???
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    I would think living outside Thailand with a thai wife/girlfriend it would be the other way around.

    I would be worried she would be getting hit on by so many younger guys.

    Why would I go hit on a plump ugly,wrinkled farang, that I have no interest in now, when my beautiful,young,silky skin, no marks,Telack is waiting at home.

    I would agree it would be hard living in Thailand as there are so many of them wanting to overthow her, and take her place.

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    Quote Originally Posted by justcruzing1 View Post
    I would think living outside Thailand with a thai wife/girlfriend it would be the other way around.

    I would be worried she would be getting hit on by so many younger guys.

    Why would I go hit on a plump ugly,wrinkled farang, that I have no interest in now, when my beautiful,young,silky skin, no marks,Telack is waiting at home.

    I would agree it would be hard living in Thailand as there are so many of them wanting to overthow her, and take her place.
    Yes you are right it is the other way around but it does not work that way.
    If the girl is content and is loved and well looked after, a dalliance would not come into the equation IMHO.
    Would be interesting to here others views on this...
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    Quote Originally Posted by wabbits View Post
    Yes you are right it is the other way around but it does not work that way.
    If the girl is content and is loved and well looked after, a dalliance would not come into the equation IMHO.
    Would be interesting to here others views on this...
    I was worried in the early days that if I was to bring my GF here on a visa she would see what is going around and that they were so much better looking then me and just ship. But I have since learned that Looks and age are not so important to them. They want some one who can take care of them well and they normally look past the looks of a person as to weather they are a nice person or not and id they have a good heart..

    Now Money is only something that comes into it. To take care of someone and their family you will need some money and it would be a lie if you were to say they dont look at the money side of the relationship. Love also can be a big thing and a TG can also feel love, I honestly feel that my GF loves me. I am 25, living with parents, paying off my car loan etc so why would she want to be with me, its not for the money I do not have. She could be seeing the long picture that I MAY have money down the track but as a great man said to me one day, TG's dont like to wait for anything so why would they wait for the what ifs and the future to get money.

    JC, from what I know of you, I feel that your TG would be stupid to not stay with you. I am sure you could take care of her better than anyone else could. I would not worry about if she is going to leave you for another guy here, she would lose something very special and possibly not be taken care of if she was to do that
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    Quote Originally Posted by giggsy View Post
    Amnuaiporn Maneewan has 15 years as a private detective in Thailand.

    She says the only man you can trust is a dead one. If he is still alive, still breathing then you can't trust them.
    Her work has made her a minor celebrity in Thailand as the master of catching men
    in compromising situations with a ''mia noi'' minor wife on the side of marriage.

    Is being married or living with a long term girlfriend in Thailand harder (as in keeping away from temptations door) as opposed to living with her outside of Thailand.
    I think the gumshoe is right on the money.

    In Thailand the risk of the man straying is greater IMHO.
    In Australia, it is more likely that a thai partner being left by their partner will first look locally for a replacement. There are some rumours of extra marital shenanigans happening even in our little thai/farang community here, which most of the girls seem to know about.
    Mrs C loves me and I love her but she is also very pragmatic about all of this. She knows how easy it would be for me to stray, even though I have no interest in doing so, and so keeps a very close eye on me. One of her favourite tv programs is "Cheaters".
    which shows both men and women caught cheating on their partners.
    And where the hell was Biggles.....?....when you needed him last Saturday....?

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    Quote Originally Posted by G4orce View Post
    I was worried in the early days that if I was to bring my GF here on a visa she would see what is going around and that they were so much better looking then me and just ship. But I have since learned that Looks and age are not so important to them. They want some one who can take care of them well and they normally look past the looks of a person as to weather they are a nice person or not and id they have a good heart..

    Now Money is only something that comes into it. To take care of someone and their family you will need some money and it would be a lie if you were to say they dont look at the money side of the relationship. Love also can be a big thing and a TG can also feel love, I honestly feel that my GF loves me. I am 25, living with parents, paying off my car loan etc so why would she want to be with me, its not for the money I do not have. She could be seeing the long picture that I MAY have money down the track but as a great man said to me one day, TG's dont like to wait for anything so why would they wait for the what ifs and the future to get money.

    JC, from what I know of you, I feel that your TG would be stupid to not stay with you. I am sure you could take care of her better than anyone else could. I would not worry about if she is going to leave you for another guy here, she would lose something very special and possibly not be taken care of if she was to do that
    Thanks G4orce,
    You have a whole life ahead of you, and so does she, yes you don't have money and assets yet, but you will, especialy as you seem a very intelegent guy.

    You are going to have so so many oppertunities ahead of you, and if you have a devoted woman, be her Thai or whatever, it will help you emensly.

    I have made and wasted/lost millions over the years, mostly because I was unhappy with myself/ relationship/marriage. My fault, no one else's.

    I would love to be 25 aqgain but as they say you live once. I still have a lot of life to live, and starting from a handicap isn't anyting to get worried about. As one of the BM's on another site, signature says ( I also have it on my computer) basically, "don't just walk up to your grave! arrive on a Harley sliding sideward's into it shouting ... I have had a ... of a life 55555"

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    Around my area and for the most part
    Thai ladies living here in my part of the UK seem
    very loyal.

    It could be something to do with the 5 basic commandments of Buddhists
    one of those precepts being ''Do not commit adultery.
    There are of course exceptions.

    However now with technology moving at great speeds and things like
    social networking sites becoming prominent. Is it not easier for people to fall at temptations
    door and arrange secret rendezvous?

    There is of course a two tier thing here.....
    The man with a mistress or mistresses (if he is greedy)
    or the man (how can I say) that visits the odd establishment.

    Are there more chances for a man to be a naughty boy living in Thailand
    than outside of it?

    Just juicing up the thread, not saying any of this is right, but playing devils advocate.

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    Quote Originally Posted by giggsy View Post
    Around my area and for the most part
    Thai ladies living here in my part of the UK seem
    very loyal.

    It could be something to do with the 5 basic commandments of Buddhists
    one of those precepts being ''Do not commit adultery.
    There are of course exceptions.

    However now with technology moving at great speeds and things like
    social networking sites becoming prominent. Is it not easier for people to fall at temptations
    door and arrange secret rendezvous?

    There is of course a two tier thing here.....
    The man with a mistress or mistresses (if he is greedy)
    or the man (how can I say) that visits the odd establishment.

    Are there more chances for a man to be a naughty boy living in Thailand
    than outside of it?
    Just juicing up the thread, not saying any of this is right, but playing devils advocate.
    Definately!! There are so so many young girls looking to attract a Hansome Man!

    Back home, she is the young beautiful girl, hit on by all the football players.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Distantpeak View Post
    Some are, some aren't.... bad to the left... good to the right...

    Its complicate I think. I read somewhere long ago that There is nothing in the word that more complicate then female/women. But in this case I think male are complicate as well.

    Mr M use to say that "we men are not complicate, we just need to be feed, and have plenty of sex" 555 (don't get me wrong..that what he said)
    I can't exactly remember what he said but something like that. So Mr M feel free to correct me !

    I am not an expert, this is my only married and Mr M is only man I have (not counting my Dad). so I have not much of my experience in this topic to share.

    I see and heard from people around me that even a man having a happy marriage life. He still want new experience, still want to try new girls. It probably okay if you and your partner agreed on this but I will not hope too much that a woman can accept this.

    I do not know what wrong with a man have more than one woman, but its wrong 555 In some religious a man could have 3 wives. What a life...

    And I also heard that some wives having an affair as well. And this is a classic one. A male friend of a Thai gf's husband. If you know the movie "hung". This is his side line job. Those women when their husband away. They will call him. I am not making this up!

    Why....I think you guys probably know more than i do. &_&

    As being an Asian and come from very conservative family I think its disgusting for a woman to having an affair. But I guess it their business if the husband does not find out.

    And for a man to having an affair I think its not fair, cheat. And I do not think I will be able to cope. I only tell Mr M that If I can not have it all, I do not want at all

    It seem very commond in Thailand that a man would have a mistress or "mai noi". There are so many in the high-so people. Money ! is one of big bait and reason. I think its the same with working as a BG but only have one customer in this case. There are some actress, model, ect. in Thailand that are doing this (regarding to the gossip news sometime).

    And I do not think that the wives accept it but because it is hight-society, so they keep it quiet. Losing face is bigger thing to lost for these rich people but sometime like our thai saying that "A die big elephant we can not just cover with a lotus leaf" Its mean that if there is a big pile smelly junk, or big dead animal, we can not hide it.

    And believe that its happening every where for regular other people. The word changed, people changed (maybe not change but they do what deep down inside tell them to... these day, everyone feel free to do anything,..its the word of freedom...thats it).

    I think its a nature of us..human, never going to change. The different is that who have more hunger, who can keep or hide it in deep down in side.

    I love barbie movies. There is one call "A Chrismas carol" the tag line was "In the selfish world, selfish succeed"

    ************** A story to share

    A Thai gf of mine, live in Perth now. He sperated with her ex husband because she caught him have a woman in TH after they moved to WA a year. And that relationship going on like 4-5 years. And that was the last straw for her.

    He was not the best husband, but she hung in there for years and years for more than 10 years. She was a teacher and still keep working even they married and have 2 kids. He was 45 yo, when she first met him but he told her that he was 35 yo and never married, she found out later that he married but devorce and hid children are grow up and have family and they hate him. So her life before in always involved with lie and lies.

    He make big money but he also spent big money. He had 3 harley davidson motor bike in Thailnd.

    Luckily that she is a saver, she bought a house and a comercial building. One of those buidling in Thailand, share wall and have 3-4 story. if not the kids will have nothing.

    They live in TH for 10 years but he got none of Thai language and he does not like Thai food. She had to cook for her and the kids and then cook a piece of stake for him.

    He sound like a woderful husband isn't he.

    Thats should be enough of talking about this wonderful man, he is now regret and have to live with it. He is now 60 something yo and not happy, lof of debt. And do not know how long he can keep his job. getting old.

    The house is still on a very big mortgage,

    She now living with her new partner + her kids. They are very happy.


    P.S. Pls forgive my Eng. mistake.
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    I like to think of myself as a minority when it comes to males... I have plenty of mates that wouldn't think twice about having an affair with another women and I'd say most would fail the test if a women actually offered themselves to him... When I read threads like this it actually strengthens my morals that my father and Grandfather have instilled into me, It's hard to be a male, especially if you think with the little head...
    I have often questioned mates about their infidelity and why they even got married, it just doesn't make sense to me but on the same hand I understand it... With my last marriage, It was something that I held a great respect for, It was always "Till Death Do We Part" for me... I am very lucky to have parents who celebrated 40yrs of marriage last year, It hasn't always been an easy thing but together they have worked hard and are true sole mates.... very inspiring!

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    Excellent post Mrs M
    Many fantastic points and great stories
    and your English is absolutely fine.

    I think I know the proverb you are referring to

    ช้างตายทั้งตัวเอาใบบัวปิดไม่มิด Chaang tai tang tua ow bai bua pid mai mid
    You can't hide a dead elephant with a water lilly/lotus leaf

    Brilliant I love these proverbs Mrs M.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PatongBeachBoy View Post
    I like to think of myself as a minority when it comes to males... I have plenty of mates that wouldn't think twice about having an affair with another women and I'd say most would fail the test if a women actually offered themselves to him... When I read threads like this it actually strengthens my morals that my father and Grandfather have instilled into me, It's hard to be a male, especially if you think with the little head...
    I have often questioned mates about their infidelity and why they even got married, it just doesn't make sense to me but on the same hand I understand it... With my last marriage, It was something that I held a great respect for, It was always "Till Death Do We Part" for me... I am very lucky to have parents who celebrated 40yrs of marriage last year, It hasn't always been an easy thing but together they have worked hard and are true sole mates.... very inspiring!
    PBB maybe minority but not alone. Not a very nice thing to be the innocent party when situation like these arise, and seen a couple of people who let the little brain ruin a marriage and cost themselves a little fortune in $, "just to exercise the ferret" or as i think why some do it "as a big ego boost", but then they have to tell someone and then they usually get found out.
    The early bird gets the worm, but the second mouse gets the cheese

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    Just not the guys either AM! actually seen that statistically speaking women after 6yrs in a relationship are more likely than men to stray

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    Quote Originally Posted by PatongBeachBoy View Post
    Just not the guys either AM! actually seen that statistically speaking women after 6yrs in a relationship are more likely than men to stray
    Oh well it was fun while it lasted......(;-)

    ****Minder and Mrs M - six years on!****
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    Quote Originally Posted by Minder View Post
    Oh well it was fun while it lasted......(;-)

    ****Minder and Mrs M - six years on!****
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