There is not enough information to say much about your decision making..
But let's presume Fy's issues are stemmed from instability in her early youth..
And I do fully understand Ao and your intentions are positive and noble,
but do you think transplanting a young, insecure girl to Canada would benefit her?
Seems like Fy needs structure and stability and I would ask myself if a different culture / different language / different food, clothes, etc. could contribute to her well-being?
Very good and valid points
I honestly don't think it will be able to happen, given the research I have done on the immigration aspect.
But for conversation sake....
I don't really worry about any issues with different culture/language with a kid that age
We've seen enough Thai kids of different ages to see how and at what ages they adapt or don't adapt well to the move
Food is a good topic. These young Thai kids don't have the affinity to Thai food that the adults do.
My experience being around quite a bit of them
They would be just as happy to eat a pizza than Thai food
But there is no lack of Thai food in our Canadian household either, I will tell you that 5555
And I guess our thought process if it was able to happen is to have two "young" adults overseeing her than 1 older grandmother. Who I know will do more than a capable job
But say she stays in Thailand with her grandmother with Ao going back a bit and her visiting here
And decisions on her being made between all 3 of us
I got an amazing stepson. I couldn't ask for a better kid
And he was basically raised that way
So that's a big positive for your point to not even think of moving her away from Thailand
I appreciate all the questions or opinions on this subject
It's why I've been posting, to get feedback from people who have a lot more experience than I do!
PS....These kids don't smile like they for Tom Yum Goong 5555
