Another mouth to feed

MarcTwoSix

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All these issues she is having are common with kids that have been abundant from the birth parents. Sorry to say but from my experience 90% chance it wont get better even with a child psychologist although its worth a shot if you can find a good one. Finding that good one could be a issue in its self.

Im with Rak on this
Seems like Fy needs structure and stability and I would ask myself if a different culture / different language / different food, clothes, etc. could contribute to her well-being?


If you want to help just be her sponsor.
There are plenty of child psychologist
And just like in medicine, a lot of them went to University in US and Europe
Obviously you can't know by reading on the internet
But there were plenty of impressive looking bios

But finding one close enough to home and qualified and fits is the search
 

Dupree

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If you can't find a used piano. Which BTW people will pay you to take it away if they don't want it. Get her a small digital one. She can take it everywhere. Under $100.
 

Tarzan

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Ao said Fy has expressed interest in music and she said Fy was happy year so she asked Fy is she wanted to try and play music and take a class

Fy said yes
And Ao asked her what she wants to play

And she said piano!
Which has been sort of a running joke.
I have been saying, without her saying it all, that she should play the piano 555
But Ao has been saying "too expensive "

And when she said it, Ao's mom said
"Uh oh, expensive " 5555


I also looked into summer camps
Ones that weren't curriculum based, just art classes , etc...
Fuck me, there is some rich people in Thailand!
Not cheap at all! 😀
Come on Paulie... Go for the best. You like the name also...5555 https://eu.bostonpianos.com/sv/pianos/boston
 

MarcTwoSix

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My MIL celebrating because we bought her an electric bike so she can take Fy around in it

Plus, she literally never asks for anything.....ever

Also, that's probably the 6th or 7th drink she has had in the 18 years I've known her 5551616800516480.jpg1616800615356.jpg
 

MarcTwoSix

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With all the money you are saving on the Volvo, you could buy a piano store.
Nomad
I got, what I presume are going to be, intense negotiations coming up with Kevin when he returns from Edmonton in about 2 weeks

I need all the $$$ I can get!
 

MarcTwoSix

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What do you mean? You said they're expensive. Meaning too much?
No.....

Ao has been saying piano lessons are too expensive
So it was funny when Fy chose piano!
Get it?

Then more funny when Ao's Mom walked by and said the same thing

I think I can swing Piano Lessons
It's been a good year .....
You see these markets?
I've been ripping off people like OzzyD all through the pandemic

But still might cut back her lunch money 10baht 5555
 

Quarky

Administrator
No.....

Ao has been saying piano lessons are too expensive
So it was funny when Fy chose piano!
Get it?

Then more funny when Ao's Mom walked by and said the same thing

I think I can swing Piano Lessons
It's been a good year .....
You see these markets?
I've been ripping off people like OzzyD all through the pandemic

But still might cut back her lunch money 10baht 5555
Do Volvo do piano lessons?
 

MarcTwoSix

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So Fy asked if she could take swimming classes

I thought it was a great idea
She's all signed up, 2x/week

Plus it's good to have it as something they can keep her focused
If she isn't do the things she needs to do

Plus, I find kids in Bangkok come home and do nothing
Unless they are at school
They don't seem to go to friend's house to play like we do in North America

So that and possibly the piano lessons
But maybe we will see how swimming goes and her school

My MIL complained she just finished with all Nut's activities and she is now back to having to do Fy's
And honestly if it were up to her, she'd come home and do nothing
But I also don't think it was a real complaint
Just a joking sort of complaint1617200286676.jpg
 
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MarcTwoSix

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Remember you talking before about Soda.

You guys are doing good work.

About time thou you and Ao get your own kid.....55
By the way, I missed this
It will be this year
Even if we need to put her upside down and put a turkey baster in there 5555

Once she gets here, the whole ovulation schedule and full on.....
 

MarcTwoSix

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Haven't updated on Fy for a while

Looks like she has fallen into a good groove
And that was our goal all along

We have her in swimming class, and she loves it!
I suggested we get her into things and active
And then Ao just asked her what she wanted to do and was interested in
She chose swimming
And Ao found a good class, actually at Nut's old school

She us currently in summer school (again her choice)
And she loves it, I think the small class helps her
She's so meek and shy, I am sure the big class at regular school intimidates her

A good thing was Ao was gone in Suphanburi for 2 weeks and it was Fy and my MIL
So good to have no Ao around

So she's going good.....

But, her Mom will just show up un-announced and then takes her and she will lose all the progress she made

Ao went down and talked to her and explained that Fy has a schedule now and that's she's doing well
And that she doesn't mind her Mom coming and taking her but that she should set it up with Ao and her grandmother so her schedule isn't upset

I told Ao that she should even send Fy's Mom a text being real nice saying she loves that she wants to see Fy, and just explain again that she's doing so well on her schedule

Ao says "why do I have to kiss her ass"
I said because it's best for Fy, so sometimes you have to grin and "kiss ass"

So I think going well
Big step is when Ao is gone
But I think it will be fine
 

MarcTwoSix

Well-known member
When Fy came to Ao's house the teacher said she was 26th out of 29 in her class

She is now 12th in her class 😀

She is also eating a lot more(before she would just pick at her food)

Ao says she hasn't noticed her sad in a long time

So things are looking good, hopefully it continues once Ao leaves
But Ao plans on being on top of things from Canada
 
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