Another mouth to feed

MarcTwoSix

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Does her mum know this and if so how is her response.

I don't know
Her mom(or father) aren't really involved in that stuff really
Honestly I way more involved sitting here in Canada than they are....
But Fy's Mom has said to Ao it's best for Fy to stay there for her life, meaning a "better life"
 

OZZYGUY

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I don't know
Her mom(or father) aren't really involved in that stuff really
Honestly I way more involved sitting here in Canada than they are....
But Fy's Mom has said to Ao it's best for Fy to stay there for her life, meaning a "better life"
Parents like that don't deserve kids...
 

MarcTwoSix

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Parents like that don't deserve kids...
Ao and I had a little argument the other night
In my opinion, she gives her brother a pass on being a proper father
It's like he's not expected to do much(he's not completely absent and does support his kids)

She will say she feels bad he has to give most of his money to support his kids
And I say, exasperated, that's what you do when you have kids!
He doesn't deserve credit for supporting his kids.

Yes, he does it while the Mom fcuked off
But that's life, he had kids and it's his responsibility to take of him

Just shocks me how little is expected from him
 

MarcTwoSix

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Well the inevitably happened, and pretty damn quick!

Fy went back to her other grandparents just 2 days after Ao left for Boston

It's a real shame we just weren't in the position to see it through but we have to live our life here

It's a shame because she really was showing a lot of progress with staying with Ao

We will stay pay for her school but don't know how much that will help if she reverts back to how she was prior


On another note, I've been harping on Ao to have my stepson change his last name to her last name for a couple of years now because Nut has had his father's name that he really doesn't know

And man, I am getting old because my reasoning was when he has kids, Ao will be pissed her grandkids has this asshat's last name

So they went to look into changing his name

But Nut said he'd prefer to have my last name.
I've never suggested that but was pretty happy to hear that! 😀

But I think I need to officially adopt him but as an adult I believe it is fairly easy
 

Quarky

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Well the inevitably happened, and pretty damn quick!

Fy went back to her other grandparents just 2 days after Ao left for Boston

It's a real shame we just weren't in the position to see it through but we have to live our life here

It's a shame because she really was showing a lot of progress with staying with Ao

We will stay pay for her school but don't know how much that will help if she reverts back to how she was prior


On another note, I've been harping on Ao to have my stepson change his last name to her last name for a couple of years now because Nut has had his father's name that he really doesn't know

And man, I am getting old because my reasoning was when he has kids, Ao will be pissed her grandkids has this asshat's last name

So they went to look into changing his name

But Nut said he'd prefer to have my last name.
I've never suggested that but was pretty happy to hear that! 😀

But I think I need to officially adopt him but as an adult I believe it is fairly easy
Your name is Paul Case isn't it? 😄
 

Quarky

Administrator
Well the inevitably happened, and pretty damn quick!

Fy went back to her other grandparents just 2 days after Ao left for Boston

It's a real shame we just weren't in the position to see it through but we have to live our life here

It's a shame because she really was showing a lot of progress with staying with Ao

We will stay pay for her school but don't know how much that will help if she reverts back to how she was prior


On another note, I've been harping on Ao to have my stepson change his last name to her last name for a couple of years now because Nut has had his father's name that he really doesn't know

And man, I am getting old because my reasoning was when he has kids, Ao will be pissed her grandkids has this asshat's last name

So they went to look into changing his name

But Nut said he'd prefer to have my last name.
I've never suggested that but was pretty happy to hear that! 😀

But I think I need to officially adopt him but as an adult I believe it is fairly easy
Sad about Fy. Why did she go back? Was it her choice?
 

RakThai

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Well the inevitably happened, and pretty damn quick!

Fy went back to her other grandparents just 2 days after Ao left for Boston

It's a real shame we just weren't in the position to see it through but we have to live our life here

It's a shame because she really was showing a lot of progress with staying with Ao

We will stay pay for her school but don't know how much that will help if she reverts back to how she was prior


On another note, I've been harping on Ao to have my stepson change his last name to her last name for a couple of years now because Nut has had his father's name that he really doesn't know

And man, I am getting old because my reasoning was when he has kids, Ao will be pissed her grandkids has this asshat's last name

So they went to look into changing his name

But Nut said he'd prefer to have my last name.
I've never suggested that but was pretty happy to hear that! 😀

But I think I need to officially adopt him but as an adult I believe it is fairly easy
I think you are being a bit too easy on yourselves...
To take responsibility for the care and education of an 8 yo girl, who has been damaged by her past and parents, is not like a hobby!
You either do take responsibility or you don't.

The excuse of "we have to live our live" just doesn't cut it for me...
 

MarcTwoSix

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I think you are being a bit too easy on yourselves...
To take responsibility for the care and education of an 8 yo girl, who has been damaged by her past and parents, is not like a hobby!
You either do take responsibility or you don't.

The excuse of "we have to live our live" just doesn't cut it for me...
Ok so what do you suppose we do?
I don't mind your opinion......

Ao was never going to be living there after a certain period
And you do realize it's her grandmother and the plan was always that she was going to be taking care of her

Not her Aunt
The girl just didn't have or want a connection with her

So what can we do with that?
 

Quarky

Administrator
Any more news on Fy?

Just seems so sad if she goes back to her old ways.... still not sure why she went back.. did someone come and get her?
 

MarcTwoSix

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Any more news on Fy?

Just seems so sad if she goes back to her old ways.... still not sure why she went back.. did someone come and get her?
Nope
The family is too concerned about covid to think about anything else

She's an 8yr old girl who didn't like her grandmother.....not that hard to figure it out
And has a father that didn't persuade her
 
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