Cobba;379277 said:
If you knew this girl you would understand why..... She is shy, very quite, lacks a little self confidence and being up front pushing those of authority is just not her character. Her freinds describe her as being "too nice", often letting people walk over her....
I guess having trust has played against her here, relying on the companies broken promises..... Valued employee???, sure and by promising her the world, kept her for as long as possible for them otherwise she may have walked earlier.
Its pretty easy to raise statements as above when you dont know the full facts. She has busted her a*se since she stepped foot into this country studying and supporting herself while doing so. Then, she has worked full time to date. As a result, she hasnt had the time to get out much and see Sydney or surrounding areas...... The visa expires soon so why work up to the day of departure?....... She dosent need the money, and now has the time to step back from work and get out and about seeing some of the sites.
She has asked the company repeatedly for a meeting to look at further employment/visa options where they have promised/cancelled and then promised again to deliver...... An aussie saying is "its like flogging a dead horse"....... They are well aware she is under time restraints as you say it and well aware of when her visa expires......
I say f**k them
Nice mature attitude and how do you know the full facts? Some girl you been dating for all of 3months told you so, that's all you have to go by.
Before you said she was a valued employee but obviously not that valued so you obviously don't know all the facts.
So all that tells me they don't really value her as much as you say they do.
Which is not the end of the world or any sort of bad reflection on her. That is just the dynamics of work environments at times.
But I still wouldn't tell her to resign abruptly
Nothing wrong with giving her notice but if they want her to remain for a certain notice period I would advise her to
Only negatives can come from walking out in a huff if she plans to seek employment in Australia in the future and needs a good reference.
You always seem to want to talk about the fact her family is wealthy and she doesn't need money
Yet she is allowing you to pay for a Visa when she hardly knows you
As I said before.....it's uncanny how these "normal girls" sure seem to find themselves in situations where they are getting some sort of financial aspect out of the relationship.......
This is touching on more the relationship aspect and I don't want to derail your Visa thread but why wouldn't she pay for her own Visa?
Why would you introduce these financial aspects so early into a relationship?
In your other thread you talk about risks of settling down with a BG yet after already getting burned by giving money so early in another relationship and you are looking to do so again
Introducing those financial aspects into a relationship so early is probably the biggest risk than any girl's past
I actually think you guys should pursue any temporary Visa you can to spend more time with her. That is a no brainer
I certainly wouldn't be looking into any sort of spouse Visa with a girl you barely know....that's just madness and sets you up for failure.
But I would suggest she pays for her own Visa as you have gone on how she and her family has the money
There is zero reason for you to be paying it.
