I am with M26 on this one.MarcTwoSix;422295 said:I'd honestly let them take the house
Doesn't matter who they are that 30k isn't my issue
And if someone got in the whole 30k on their house they did something very stupid or negligent to get there and they'd never pay you back
I consider emergencies something someone couldn't prevent
Tough love approach needed to protect yourself long term.
Once the house is gone it's gone, bail them out and you will spend your days just waiting for it to happen again.